Before you know it you’ll be asking, “How didit get so late so soon?” So take time to figure yourself out. Take time to realizewhat you want and need. Take time to take risks. Take time to love, laugh, cry,learn, and forgive. Life is shorter than it often seems.
在你知道这些人生哲学之前你会问自己：“为什么我这么晚才理解这些道理，为什么这么快生命就走到了止境？”花点时刻想想自己想要什么，需求什么；花点时刻去冒险；花点时刻去爱、去笑、去哭泣、去学习和宽恕。生命往往比看上去更时刻短。
Here are ten things you need to know,before it’s too late:
下面这十大人生道理你应该尽早懂得：
1. This moment is your life.
活在当下。
Your life is not between the moments ofyour birth and death. Your life is between now and your next breath. Thepresent – the here and now – is all the life you ever get. So live each momentin full, in kindness and peace, without fear and regret. And do the best youcan with what you have in this moment; because that is all you can ever expectof anyone, including yourself.
生命并不是从出世到逝世的这段时刻，而是你呼吸着的时时刻刻。现在——此时此地——便是你全部的人生。所以在生命的每一分钟，都应该日子在充分、仁慈和安静之中，而不是惊骇和惋惜。此时你能够尽你所能做到最好，由于谁都盼望不住，包含你自己。
2. A lifetime isn’t very long.
一辈子并不长。
This is your life, and you’ve got to fightfor it. Fight for what’s right. Fight for what you believe in. Fight for what’simportant to you. Fight for the people you love, and never forget to tell themhow much they mean to you. Realize that right now you’re lucky because youstill have a chance. So stop for a moment and think. Whatever you still need todo, start doing it today. There are only so many tomorrows.
这是你的人生，你有必要为之斗争。为你以为对的工作斗争，为你的崇奉斗争，为那些关于你来说重要的东西而斗争，为你爱的人而斗争，记住告知他们：他们对你很重要。要知道此时你是走运的，由于你依然有时机。因而逗留顷刻，好好考虑一下你还有什么工作需求去做，今日就开端举动。不要比及明日，明日复明日，明日何其多。
3. The sacrifices you make today will paydividends in the future.
今日的献身和尽力未来都会有报答。
When it comes to working hard to achieve adream – earning a degree, building a business, or any other personal achievementthat takes time and commitment – one thing you have to ask yourself is: “Am Iwilling to live a few years of my life like many people won’t, so I can spendthe rest of my life like many people can’t?”
提到为愿望而斗争——学位，创业，或其他任何需求时刻和投入才干完成的个人成果——你先要问自己一个问题：“我是否乐意过几年大多数人都不肯过的苦日子，只为具有大多数人无法企及的夸姣余生？”
4. When you procrastinate, you become aslave to yesterday.
延迟会让你成为昨日的奴隶。
When you are proactive, it’s as ifyesterday is a kind friend that helps take a load off your back. So dosomething right now that your future self will thank you for. Trust me,tomorrow you’ll be happy you started today.
当你积极主动的时分，昨日就好像一个好朋友，帮你卸下背上的担负。所以要做什么事现在就开端吧，今后你会感谢你自己的，信任我，明日你会为今日就开端举动而感到高兴。
5. Failures are only lessons.
失利仅仅生长的讲堂。
Good things come to those who still hopeeven though they’ve been disappointed, to those who still believe even thoughthey’ve tasted failure, to those who still love even though they’ve been hurt.So never regret anything that has happened in your life; it cannot be changed,undone or forgotten. Take it all as lessons learned and move on with grace.
那些受过波折却依然怀有期望的人，那些尝过失利味道却依然具有崇奉的人，那些受过损伤却依然信任真爱的人，夸姣的东西终会降临到他们身上。因而，永久都不要为日子中现已发作的工作懊悔；这些工作现已无法改动、抹去或忘记。把这些履历都作为经验，持续有风姿的行进。
6. You are your most importantrelationship.
最重要的朋友是自己。
Happiness is when you feel good aboutyourself without feeling the need for anyone else’s approval. You must firsthave a healthy relationship with yourself before you can have a healthyrelationship with others. You have to feel worthwhile and acceptable in yourown eyes, so that you’ll be able to look confidently into the eyes of thepeople around you and connect with them.
夸姣是自己的感触，无需别人的同意。在和周围人树立健康的联系前，你首先得和自己树立一种健康的联系。你要觉得自己眼中的自己是有价值和受欢迎的，这样你在别人的眼中便是一个自傲的形象，才干自傲的与别人往来。
7. A person’s actions speak the truth.
行为见人心。
You’re going to come across people in yourlife who will say all the right words at all the right times; but in the end,it’s always their actions you should judge them by. So pay attention to whatpeople do. Their actions will tell you everything you need to know.
日子中有一些人总是说话很得当，可是最终你认清他仍是经过他的行为。因而要注意人们的行为。他们的行为会告知你你需求知道的全部东西。
8. Small acts of kindness can make theworld a better place.
小小善举成果夸姣国际。
Smile at people who look like they arehaving a rough day. Be kind to them. Kindness is the only investment that neverfails. And wherever there is a human being, there’s an opportunity forkindness. Learn to give, even if it’s just a smile, not because you have toomuch, but because you understand there are so many others who feel like theyhave nothing at all.
对那些辛苦度日的人们报以浅笑。善待他们，好心是这个国际上仅有不会失利的出资，只需有人类就有爱。要学会给予，哪怕仅仅一个小小的浅笑，不是由于你具有的太多，而是由于这国际上有许多人觉得他们一无全部。
9. Behind every beautiful life, there hasbeen some kind of pain.
破茧成蝶的夸姣日子都有伤痛。
You fall, you rise, you make mistakes, youlive, you learn. You’re human, not perfect. You’ve been hurt, but you’re alive.Think of what a precious privilege it is to be alive – to breathe, to think, toenjoy, and to chase the things you love. Sometimes there is sadness in ourjourney, but there is also lots of beauty. We must keep putting one foot infront of the other even when we hurt, for we will never know what is waitingfor us just around the bend.
你会失利，会成功，会犯错误，你活着，你在学习。你是人，就不会完美无瑕。你会收到损伤，但你还活着。想想你还活着，这是多么宝贵的权力——能呼吸，能考虑，能享用，能寻找你喜爱的东西。人生的旅途中不免会有哀痛，但也有许多夸姣。即便遭到损伤，咱们也要坚持行进的姿势，由于咱们永久也不知道在人生的转角处会有什么在等待着咱们。
10. Time and experience heals pain.
时刻和履历会抚平全部伤痛。
Your negative event seems much larger toyou because it is a greater percentage of your total life experiences. I am notdiminishing the importance of this event; I simply have a different perspectiveon it. What you need to understand is that an overwhelmingly painful event inyour life right now will one day be part of your much larger past and notnearly as significant as it seems.
关于你来说，负面事情之所以这么难以承受，是由于你的人生履历还太少。我并不是说这些履历不重要，仅仅从不同的视点来看待它们。你要理解的是，现在在你看来足以压垮你的苦楚，跟着人生履历的增加终会成为曩昔的一部分，在你的回忆中逐步淡化。
